I am just back from my twenty year high school reunion in my hometown of Cincinnati, Ohio. What a crazy, great weekend! I often say, I still feel like I am eighteen years old and just out of high school. Although the realities of adulthood--job stress, friends my age who have 4 kids when I have none, laugh lines, aging parents, just to name a few--hit me everyday, somehow I still don't feel like I have truly grown into my late thirtysomething skin. And being back in that small, conservative town at my preppy high school with my high school friends brought that feeling back something fierce.
A longtime friend put it well today when he wrote in a post-weekend email that he felt like everyone was a slightly better version of the people they were back in high school. I don't know about you, but I have found that seems to happen with reunions in general. All the old cliques disolve and most people seem genuinely interested to see you and learn about what you have been doing for the past five, ten or twenty years.
Of course, I wasn't conviced it was going to be that easy last week when I was trying to figure out what to wear or who I hoped I would see. But once I was there, those feeling seemed to subside...for the most part. Hey, I am only human, right?